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What Do We Get Wrong About Each Other?
How stereotypes shape the way American and East Asian students see one another
Before students from different cultures ever meet, they often already have an image of one another. American teenagers may imagine East Asian students as extremely academic, quiet, and under constant pressure. East Asian students may picture American teenagers as outgoing, independent, and more relaxed about school. But how accurate are these images?
How American Students See East Asian Teenagers
One common image of East Asian students is that they are naturally good at math, spend most of their time studying, and have strict parents who expect perfect grades. Some American students also imagine schools in countries like China, Japan, and South Korea as highly competitive places where academics come before almost everything else. While academic pressure is certainly real for many students, these assumptions can make millions of teenagers seem as if they all have the same personality and priorities. In reality, East Asian teenagers have different interests, ambitions, family relationships, and attitudes toward school—just like American teenagers do.
How East Asian Students See American Teenagers
American teenagers have stereotypes of their own. From movies, social media, and TV shows, some East Asian students may imagine American high school as a place with less academic pressure, more freedom, and students who are naturally confident and outgoing. They may picture teenagers driving to school, going to parties, playing sports, and making most of their own decisions. But this image can also be misleading. Many American students face pressure from grades, AP classes, college applications, extracurricular activities, and expectations from their families. Being more independent does not necessarily mean having fewer responsibilities.
Where Do These Stereotypes Come From?
Many of these ideas do not come from personal experience. They come from movies, social media, news, and stories we hear about another country. The problem is not noticing cultural differences. The problem begins when we assume those differences describe everyone.
Beyond the Stereotypes
The easiest way to challenge a stereotype is surprisingly simple: talk to someone. When American and East Asian students actually share their experiences, the picture becomes much more complicated. Students on both sides of the Pacific worry about grades, friendships, family expectations, and their futures. They may experience these things differently, but those differences do not make them as distant as stereotypes suggest.
The more we talk to each other, the harder it becomes to see one another as stereotypes.